So, I might as well let them focus

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And I would also say to myself: "Now that you have defined your action plan, well forget it. There is no point in thinking about your action plan and your problems for hours and days, forget it. If you have decided to act tomorrow, well between now and the next day, try to read, to do activities that will make you forget about it." There you go, that would be my fourth piece of advice: "Solve your problems on paper."

The fifth piece of advice I would give to young Johan is to ignore the gaze of others. And I'm not entirely cured of that today at 40 years old. To be honest, I tend to worry a lot about what others think, what they will think of me, not in terms of a discussion that could be had between them, it goes further than that, it's, what will they think of me? That's a little bit like that. What will they think and what would happen if this person thought badly of me?

So, I would clearly say to myself that it is essential to ignore the gaze of others. Others judge us, yes, a little, but they think little about us in fact. We tend, because we think mostly about uk whatsapp number data ourselves, about what surrounds us, because as human beings, we have this selfish side, we think most of the time about ourselves, well that doesn't leave us much time to think about others and think negative things about others.

So the others, in fact, they are too busy thinking about themselves to worry about me. on themselves and say to themselves: "I don't care what they think. I ignore the gaze of others." That is an important quality, in my opinion.

Sixth piece of advice I would give to the 20-year-old Johan is to tell myself: "Johan, accept one thing: You will never finish your tasks." For a long time, I had the weakness of thinking that at some point I would be finished. So I told myself: "OK. After this big project, wow, I will be at peace." At the end of the week, I tried to no longer have any lists in progress, any actions in progress, which is actually stupid because every time we finish things, there are new things that happen in our lives.